Ngati Grinch ikuba Khirisimasi, mliriwu umatilepheretsa kukondwerera mokwanira maholide otsala a m'nyengo yozizira. Zikuoneka kuti iyi ndi nyengo ina yoyembekezera. Malinga ndi malangizo aposachedwa a boma, maulendo a tchuthi sakuloledwa, ndipo misonkhano ya digito ikuwoneka ngati njira yanzeru kwambiri yolumikizirana ndi abwenzi ndi abale.
Ngati mukufuna kuchititsa sewero lanu lowonera makanema, chonde kumbukirani chinthu choti muganizire. Ndipo popeza mabuku a Emily Posts sakunena za zochitika zenizeni, tidalumikizana ndi akazi anayi omwe amalandira alendo ndipo tidawapatsa njira zabwino kwambiri zochitira maphwando a zakumwa za digito, jamu ndi kulawa vinyo. Chibwano, kuyambira pansi kupita mmwamba, ndikupitiriza kuwerenga.
Monga wopanga zochitika, amadziwika chifukwa cha njira yake "yowirikiza kawiri khama". Kwa nthawi yayitali, Gardner wakhala akupereka zinthu kwa okonza maphwando omwe akufuna kupanga usiku wosaiwalika. Malingaliro ake akuphatikizapo mapangidwe a mapangidwe, maluwa osatha ndi kusewera. M'dzinja lino, adatsegula sitolo yake yapaintaneti ya nyumba ndi maphwando, komwe mungapeze zinthu zonse zomwe amakonda - mizere ya Chipwitikizi, magalasi a Murano ndi zida za zipewa zamapepala kuti musangalale kwambiri. Nazi njira zabwino kwambiri za Gardner.
Ndikuganiza kuti ndibwino kuti anthu padziko lonse lapansi akumane akuganiza njira zopitirizira mwambo wa tchuthi. Komabe, ndikuopa kuyitanidwa kuti ndichite nawo zochitika pa intaneti. Pali zovuta zaukadaulo, kenako ndikukhala patsogolo pa sikirini ya kompyuta kuti ndidye ndikumva mantha. Ndikupangira kuti misonkhano iyi ya pa intaneti ikhale yochepa komanso yokoma, koma ndi yosaiwalika. Bwanji osalowa nawo anzanu ndi abale pa phwando la chakudya chamadzulo ndi maphwando ogona?
Konzani menyu yapadera, limbikitsani kuphika pagulu, kenako konzani maulendo awiri a Zoom panthawi yomwe yakhazikitsidwa musanayambe komanso mutadya chakudya chamadzulo. Konzani mphindi 30 musanayambe kudya chakudya chamadzulo komanso madzulo kuti musasokoneze chakudya chanu.
Paperless Post ili ndi gulu lonse la maphwando apakompyuta. Mutha kuphatikiza ulalo wa "zoom" m'mawuwo. Ndimakonda zosankha zomwe zili mu chithunzi cha Happy Menocal (adapanganso makadi okongola a menyu a shopu yanga).
Takhala tikuyang'ana malo omwewo kwa miyezi ingapo ndipo kukongoletsa matebulo ndi njira yabwino yopangira malo okondwerera. Odani maluwa! Chepetsani magetsi! Valani bwino! Ikani nyali! Kaya gululo ndi laling'ono bwanji, musalole chilichonse kuwononga malo anu okonzera tebulo. Mutha kuwonetsa zokongoletsera zanu panthawi ya Zoom call, koma chonde musagwiritse ntchito "zithunzi zakumbuyo" pokhapokha ngati zili zoopsa kwambiri komanso zochititsa mantha.
Ine ndine wophunzira wa Priya Parker (iye analemba kuti “Luso la Kusonkhana: Momwe Timakumana ndi Chifukwa Chake N’kofunika”). Wolandira alendo ayenera kudziwa nthawi zonse za mwambowu, mosasamala kanthu za mtundu wake. Iyi ndi njira yopangira ntchito kukhala yothandiza.
Chaka chino, chofunika kwambiri ndi kukonzekera pasadakhale ndikuchita khama, chifukwa mafoni a Zoom amagwiritsidwa ntchito pamisonkhano yamalonda. Valani chipewa chakuda, ndakatulo zachikondi zokopa, kapena lolani ana ayimbe nyimbo zoseketsa. Onjezani makeke. Kutumiza zigoba ndi zipewa zopusa za maphwando, kapena makeke awa a maphwando, omwe ali ndi zodzikongoletsera, ndi masewera osangalatsa a chipinda chochezera monga "Yerekezerani kuti mukusungunula chipale chofewa", ndizosangalatsa kwambiri. Zachidziwikire, achibale anu angachite izi mosangalala.
Kupita ku chakudya chamadzulo cha Aeron Lauder ndi kuphunzira luso la makhalidwe abwino. Wopanga mapulani amene anatengera masomphenya a agogo ake a kapangidwe kake ndi kalembedwe ka anthu, anagawana nzeru zake m'buku latsopano lakuti "Rizzoli". Iye anati zosangalatsa ziyenera kukhala zosavuta komanso zosangalatsa, ngakhale zitakhala khofi kwa anthu awiri ogona pabedi kapena kusangalatsa achibale awo apafupi kuti adye chakudya chamadzulo. Njira zabwino kwambiri za Lauder ndi izi.
Njira yabwino kwambiri yochitira chochitika cha pa intaneti ndikusunga chinsinsi komanso chinsinsi. Ngati tiphunzira chilichonse panthawiyi, ndikuganiza kuti uku ndi kufunika kosamala kwambiri. Ndimakonda kumwa tiyi wa masana ndi anzanga ndi abale. Iyi ndi njira yabwino yomaliza tsikulo.
Sindinganame, sindine munthu wabwino kugwiritsa ntchito Zoom, ana anga aamuna angafunike kundithandiza kukonza chochitikachi. Koma tsopano ndi malo abwino olankhulirana, kusonkhana ndikupanga zokumbukira zatsopano.
Pa tiyi wa masana, ndikupangira kuti mukonzekeretu zonse zomwe mungafune - seti yanu ya tiyi, shuga ndi mkaka. Ndakhala ndikugwiritsa ntchito mndandanda wanga wa tiyi wa Ginori 1735 Granduca posachedwapa. Nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndi mtsuko waung'ono wodzaza ndi maluwa ndi mbale yodzaza ndi chokoleti chosakanikirana cha edelweiss. Ndakhala ndikugwiritsa ntchito mtsuko wathu watsopano wa Lattea panthawi yonse yodzipatula chifukwa umapangidwa ndi galasi ndipo umawoneka wokongola kulikonse. Kenako, ndikupangira kuti muwiritse madziwo musanayambe ntchitoyo kuti musangalale mokwanira ndi alendo anu. Mutha kulankhulana nawo pasadakhale, kuti pasakhale wina kukhitchini panthawi yolankhulana.
Ndine wachikale kwambiri ndipo nthawi zonse ndimakonda maitanidwe m'maimelo, koma pazochitika zapaintaneti, maitanidwe a digito amawoneka oyenera kwambiri. Ndimakonda kupanga maitanidwe a digito kuti anthu azisangalala ndi chochitikachi. Ndimakonda kugwira ntchito ndi ojambula zithunzi zamadzi monga Happy Menocal, Kinshippress ndi Clementina sketchbooks kuti alendo azimva kuti ndi apadera komanso opangidwa ndi manja.
Ndimazolowerabe kuchita zinthu pa intaneti ndikuphunzira njira zabwino, koma ndikuganiza kuti kukhala ndi malo abwino komanso okongola ndiko komwe kumakhudza kwambiri. Nthawi iliyonse ndikakhala ndi alendo kunyumba, ndikufuna kuti azimva bwino ndikusangalala. Chifukwa chake, cholinga changa ndikupanga malo apaintaneti ogwirizana ndi lingaliro ili. Mukachita phwando la tiyi, ndikukulangizani kuti muzitha kuyang'ana kwambiri kuchokera kuchipinda chochezera kapena kukhitchini. Ikani laputopu patebulo lam'mbali, mutha kuyikanso matiketi a tiyi.
Zivute zitani, kusunga nthawi nthawi zonse kumalimbikitsidwa. Tili ndi zambiri zoti tichite kunyumba, choncho zikomo kwambiri chifukwa cha nthawi iliyonse yomwe mungabwere.
Nthawi iliyonse ndikasangalala, zokambirana zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa ndizofunikira kuti mukhale ndi madzulo abwino, choncho ndikofunikira kuti aliyense alankhule. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe ndimaganizira kwambiri kuchita zochitika zazing'ono komanso zachinsinsi. Ndikuganiza kuti ndikofunikira kwambiri kulumikizana mwachindunji ndi alendo anu ndikuwapangitsa kumva mosiyana. Nthawi zonse ndimakonda kubweretsa nkhani zanga ndi zokumbukira muzochita zanga kuti alendo azimva ngati ali kunyumba. Mukufunanso kuti alendo anu athe kucheza ndi ena.
Nthawi zonse ndimanena kuti monga wolandila alendo, kupumula ndi kusangalala ndizofunikira, chifukwa alendo adzatsatira malangizo anu. Ndikuganiza kuti izi zikugwirabe ntchito.
Nthawi zambiri ndimasunga mphindi 45 kuti ndichite izi, koma mulimonsemo, zidzatha mwachibadwa. Malinga ndi zomwe ndakumana nazo, alendo nthawi zambiri amaphunzira kuchokera ku zizindikiro zomwe zimazimiririka.
Nthawi zonse ndimakonda kusiya mphatso pang'ono pamalo odyera a aliyense. Izi ndi zomwe ndinaphunzira kwa agogo anga aakazi Estee Lauder. Kuti ndipitirize mwambowu, kungakhale lingaliro losangalatsa kutumiza mphatso yaying'ono kwa alendo onse, kaya kuyatsa makandulo panthawi ya mwambowu, ziwiya zophikira zakumwa pa bar, kapena ngakhale chopukutira cha monogram. AERIN yagwirizananso posachedwapa ndi Social Studies, yomwe imapereka zofunikira kuti muyike matebulo onse okongola pakhomo panu. Ndimakonda lingaliro lakuti mlendo aliyense amalandira mbale zomwezo, zopukutira, magalasi, ndi zina zotero kuti apange chidziwitso chogwirizana kwambiri.
Chofunika kwambiri, monga wolandila alendo, muyenera kukhala osavuta komanso osangalatsa. Olandira alendo nthawi zambiri amayesetsa kukhala angwiro, zomwe sizivuta kukopa chidwi cha anthu. Zina mwa zochitika zabwino kwambiri zomwe ndakhala ndikuchita ndi zosakhazikika komanso zosavuta. Estee Lauder nthawi zonse ankati: “Malinga ngati zitenga nthawi, chilichonse chidzakhala chokongola.” Mawu awa akadali oyenera dziko lamakono la pa intaneti.
Monga woyambitsa Virtual With Us, Alex Schrecengost adakonza mapulogalamu oganizira za vinyo kuti anzako amalonda ndi abwenzi azisangalala limodzi. Makasitomala ake amayambira makampani a Fortune 500 mpaka mabungwe akuluakulu osachita phindu omwe amachititsa maphwando amadzulo. Alendo ake onse adzalandira vinyo wokhala ndi mabotolo ndi vinyo wofanana nawo mwambowu usanachitike, kenako lowani kuti mukambirane madzulo osangalatsa ndikukhala ndi mwayi wophunzira za vinyo amene amamwa. Nazi njira zabwino kwambiri za Schrecengost.
Timagwiritsa ntchito Zoom. Ndi yosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito ndipo ili ndi njira yophunzirira yochepa kwa iwo omwe saidziwa bwino. Chomwe mukufunikira ndi laputopu (kapena ngakhale foni yam'manja) ndi gwero labwino la kuwala kuti muwone nkhope zokongola za aliyense.
Mukhoza kutumiza mndandanda wa zinthu zogulira kuti mupeze vinyo wosavuta kupeza, kapena wabwinopo, chonde tigwiritseni ntchito! Timapanga mndandanda wa vinyo, mowa, mowa ndi zakumwa zonse (khofi/tiyi) mkati. Ndimagwira ntchito limodzi ndi ogulitsa, otumiza kunja ndi ogulitsa m'dziko lonselo kuti ndipeze zinthu zapadera, ndipo ndimakonda kukutumizirani.
Timalimbikitsa kuitana anthu okonda vinyo. Tikufuna kuti alendo athu azimva bwino ndi vinyo komanso kuphunzira m'malo odzionetsera, ouma kapena oweruza. Ngati mukuchititsa phwando la vinyo kunyumba ndipo simungapeze chithandizo cha munthu wokonda vinyo, mutha kutenga udindo wa munthu wokonda vinyo ndikuwerenga mbiri ya zakumwa zomwe mukumwa, kapena kutenga nawo mbali mu kutanthauzira kwa katswiri wa sommelier za kulawa vinyo.
Zoonadi zatsimikizira kuti ola limodzi ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri, ngakhale kuti ngati aliyense ali ndi nthawi yapadera, amakhala nthawi yayitali, tikulimbikitsa izi.
Chinthu chabwino kwambiri chokhudza vinyo ndi momwe zimasonkhanitsira anthu mosavuta. N'zosavuta kuphatikiza vinyo ndi zokambirana, kotero timakambirana za chakudya ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu kuti aliyense akhale wosalala komanso wosangalatsa. Kuphatikiza apo, anthu amakonda nkhani zabwino ndi nkhani zokhudza vinyo amene amamwa, kotero adagawana malingaliro ena okhudza malo opangira vinyo kapena banja lomwe lili ndi malo opangira vinyo.
Monga momwe zilili pa phwando lililonse, chonde yesani momwe aliyense akumvera ndikuyesera kuti aliyense ayatse kamera. Izi zimasintha mlengalenga wa msonkhano wonse ndipo zimathandiza kuti aliyense azilankhulana. Konzani msonkhano wosangalatsa wodzaza aliyense ndi mlengalenga wosangalatsa, monga: ndi zinthu ziti zomwe anthu amachita nthawi ya COVID, kapena pulojekiti yomwe amanyadira kwambiri, ngakhale itakhala yotanganidwa kugwira ntchito ndi kuphunzira. Komanso, nthabwala! Ngati mukukayikira, chonde pangani kukhala kosangalatsa. Ngati aliyense angathe kuseka limodzi, ndiye kuti aliyense adzakhala ndi nthawi yosangalala.
Mosiyana ndi matebulo a m'malesitilanti, tili ndi chibadwa chofuna kudziwa nthawi yomwe zinthuzo zimatha. Nkhani yake ndi kumva chipinda chanu cha pa intaneti ndikuona ngati anthu akuchezabe ndi kulankhulana, kapena ngati akuoneka otopa.
Mungalimbikitse alendo anu kuti akhale ndi chokoleti ndi tchizi ndipo adye pang'ono. Galasi la vinyo lofanana bwino nthawi zonse limakhala lokoma kwambiri.
Monga woyambitsa Club Club Global, Solano amachititsa zochitika za mlungu ndi mlungu pa nsanja yowonera ya Twitch. Pulogalamu yake idawonetsa maluso osiyanasiyana, kuphatikizapo DJ spinning, sewero la ojambula, kuwerenga ndakatulo, ndi zojambulajambula pamavidiyo. Club House Global idabadwa panthawi ya mliri kuti ithandizire njira yomwe ma DJ ndi ojambula sangalumikizane ndi omvera mwanjira yachikhalidwe. Club House Global ndi kilabu yomwe imalandira aliyense. Njira zabwino za Solano ndi izi:
Chosangalatsa kwambiri ndichakuti kuwonera makanema kumatha kuchitidwa mwaulere kapena mwangwiro momwe mungafunire, ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana!
Mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito nsanja zingapo powonera pompopompo. Twitch ndi yabwino chifukwa cha kuthekera kwake kolola kulumikizana nthawi yeniyeni, kusangalatsa pulogalamu yanu, ndikukuwonetsani gulu lalikulu lomwe lilipo kale pawailesi ya pompopompo. Kuphatikiza apo, kungokhala chete kumakhala bwino! Chilengedwe cha Twitch chimalimbikitsa khalidwe lapamtima, losaphunzitsidwa. Izi zimatithandiza kukopa omvera ndikupanga phwando kukhala lokopa kwa iwo.
Pa mapulogalamu ambiri owonera pompopompo, mufunika WiFi yabwino komanso chipangizo cholumikizidwa ndi kamera. Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti gawo lotsatira ndi losavuta monga kukanikiza batani la "pompopompo". Komabe, kutengera kukula kwa pulogalamuyo, zitha kukhala zovuta kwambiri. Ngati ndinu DJ kapena wolandila, nthawi zambiri mumafunikira mawonekedwe amawu, monga GoMixer kapena iRig. Ndipo ndibwino kuyika ndikuphunzira OBS (Open Broadcast Software). Ngati mukufuna kupeza ukadaulo wapamwamba, monga momwe tilili ku Club House Global, mufunika osinthira ukadaulo monga woyambitsa mnzanga Patrick Struys. Ngati muli ndi macheza apompopompo (kaya pa Twitch, IG Live, Facebook kapena Youtube Live), mungafunike woyang'anira yemwe angatsimikizire kuti zokambiranazo zikugwirabe ntchito komanso zoyenera. Mnzanga wachitatu komanso wopanga wamkulu Anjali Ramasunder ku CHG ndi katswiri pankhaniyi. Tonsefe timavala zipewa zambiri, chifukwa malo owonera pompopompo ali kumadzulo kwenikweni, mumafunikira manja anu onse pa deck.
Mukhoza kutsatira zizolowezi zambiri zofanana za IRL mukamakonzekera kutsatsa uthenga wanu. Pangani mapepala ofotokozera, tumizani uthengawo pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, kenako tumizani uthengawo kudzera m'makalata, mauthenga, ndi zina zotero. Mukasankha nthawi yomwe mukufuna kuti kanemayo ayambe kuonerera, ganizirani nthawi ya omvera komanso nthawi yomwe makanema ena amoyo amachitikira. Ndipo musaiwale kuwonjezera ulalo wolunjika ku uthenga wanu!
Mavoti a wailesi yamoyo amasinthasintha ndipo sakudziwika. Ichi ndi chinthu chomwe muyenera kuzolowera. Sichigwira ntchito ngati chochitika cha IRL. Anthu amaonekera mwadzidzidzi kenako n’kubwerera ku kanema wanu. Njira zina zimatenga maola awiri, zina zimatha maola 24. Zimatengera bandwidth yanu ndi zolinga zanu zowonera. Mwachitsanzo, kodi mukufuna kupeza ndalama? Kapena kungocheza ndi anzanu? Kodi muli ndi ma DJ/ojambula 10 omwe akukonzekera kuchita sewero limodzi ola lililonse, kapena ndinu awiri? Nthawi zina, njira yabwino yodziwira yoyenera kwa inu ndi kuyesa!
Mukakhala ndi omvera, kaya m'chipinda chanu chochitira misonkhano ku Zoom kapena papulatifomu ya anthu onse, mumafuna kulandira aliyense. Uzani omvera zomwe akusintha, ndipo muwapatse mapu a pulogalamuyo. Kumbukirani, anthu adzafika nthawi zosiyanasiyana, ndipo ndi bwino kuvomereza.
Munthu akakhala pa maikolofoni, omvera amoyo amachitapo kanthu kwambiri. Makamaka mukalankhula mwachindunji ndi macheza, kuyankha mafunso, kupereka ndemanga pa nyimbo zomwe zikuimbidwa, ndi zina zotero. Ganizirani izi ngati podcast yamoyo. Wolandila wabwino adzakupangitsani kumva ngati muli anthu awiri okha mchipindamo. Omvera adzakhala chete, kotero zambiri zomwe mukulankhulana zidzakhala mu macheza. Khalani otseguka ku ndemanga ndipo musanyalanyaze anthu omwe akukunyozani.
Njira yabwino kwambiri yowonetsetsa kuti omvera anu akusangalala ndikuwonetsetsa kuti mukusangalala. Mphamvu zimafalikira, ndipo tsopano ndinu mtsogoleri wa resonance. Simudzatha kuwona omvera anu, kotero nthawi zonse mutha kufunsa ngati macheza ali osangalatsa. Omvera akalumikizana nanu, adzakhala mafani. Chifukwa chake pitirizani kulumikizana nanu!
Kawirikawiri, musanayambe kuonera pa intaneti, muyenera kukhala ndi nthawi yovuta yowonera pa intaneti. Makamaka ngati mukufuna kutsatsa pulogalamuyo pasadakhale. Kuphatikiza apo, ngati mukufuna kuwonera pa intaneti nthawi zonse kuti mupeze omvera pa intaneti, muyenera kuwonera pa intaneti nthawi yomweyo komanso ola limodzi kamodzi pa sabata.
Ndithudi! Nthawi zonse mufunika kuyamikira omvera chifukwa chobwera, makamaka ngati mukufuna kuti abwerenso kudzaulutsa nkhani ina yamoyo. Apanso, gwiritsani ntchito chizolowezi chomwecho cha IRL pa izi - kutumiza mauthenga othokoza kudzera pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, makalata kapena mauthenga. Itanani anthu enaake omwe ali okhulupirika ku uthenga wanu ndikukulitsa gulu lanu la digito.
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